Wednesday, March 27, 2013

ALLAH'S SAYS Vs syaithan's says

Shaitan says that your hijab doesn't make you look pretty.
Allah tells you that your beauty is only for your husband to see.

Shaitan says your eyebrows are too bushy; they need to be shaped neatly.
Allah reminds you that there's no need to change His creation because He has created you with beauty.

Shaitan says you look hot in those skinny jeans and transparent tops.
Allah warns you that hell is hotter and shaitan's plan always flops.

Shaitan offers you moments of worldly pleasures.
Allah promises you in the Hereafter many treasures.

And yet,
such is the plight of us Muslims,
we follow our whims
as if there is no Day of Accountability to come,
where Jannah will only be given to some. :(

What a woman wants

What women want? 

A couple that wishes to have a successful relationship must understand each other’s needs. A husband must take into account that a woman’s needs and expectations are different than a man’s. Great intimacy can only be achieved if a woman finds a complete, fulfilling relationship. So what are women looking for in a marriage?

Women get married to find a special best friend. They want someone who will share their secrets, laugh and joke with them, love them, cherish them, adore them, be romantic with them, and make them feel beautiful and wanted. They want someone who will be attracted to them emotionally through their personality, and attracted to them physically through their bodies.

A woman wants a partner who will strive together with her through this life; laughing and rejoicing through the good times, and sticking by each other and supporting each other through the bad times. She wants a man strong in his deen who can stand up and take the responsibility of the household, and help raise the children in accordance with Islam.

A woman wants her husband to be her friend, companion, and soul mate.

Any good husband must realize that a woman’s primary need is emotional. He must take into account the prophetic tradition “The best of you are those who are best to their wives,” [Sahih al-Bukhari], and then strive to be the best to his wife.