This is Love

Bismillah..

How often we try to define what is LOVE and yet no justification can ever made to re-ensure what LOVE really means to us..

Look into your heart now my love, who IS there in your heart?

THIS IS LOVE..

"..there are at least 2 types of love. There will be some people you love because of what you get from them: what they give you, the way they make you feel. This is perhaps the majority of love—which is also what makes much of love so unstable. A person’s capacity to give is inconstant and changing. Your response to what you are given is also inconstant and changing. So if you’re chasing a feeling, you’ll always be chasing.  No feeling is ever constant. If love is dependent on this, it too becomes inconstant and changing. And just like everything in this world, the more you chase it, the more it will run away from you.

But, once in a while, people enter your life that you love—not for what they give you—but for what they are. The beauty you see in them is a reflection of the Creator, so you love them. Now suddenly it isn’t about what you’re getting, but rather what you can give. This is unselfish love. This second type of love is the most rare. And if it is based in, and not competing with, the love of God, it will also bring about the most joy. To love in any other way is to need, to be dependent, to have expectations—all the ingredients for misery and disappointment."


Once you begin to see everything beautiful as only a reflection of God’s beauty, you will learn to love in the right way: for His sake. Everything and everyone you love with be for, through and because of Him. The foundation of such love is God. So what you hold onto will no longer be just an unstable feeling, a fleeting emotion. And what you chase will no longer be just a temporary high. What you hold, what you chase, what you love, will be God: the *only* thing stable and constant"


http://www.yasminmogahed.com/2012/01/03/this-is-love/


A post specially made for the-confused me.
May Allah make HIM the most beloved to us. Aamin..

And Allah knows best.
Wassalam..


*Let your love be WITH HIM, BECAUSE OF HIM and FOR HIM*

[HIGHLIGHT!] Bea-YOU-tiful

‎"Ugly-ducklings" (a.k.a REAL-NORMAL women) vs "Swans" (Airbrushed women)

How you define bea-YOU-tiful? Hmm.. (".)

http://dearlittleauntie.blogspot.com/2011/12/bea-you-tiful.html

When I Told You Not To..

source: click here

When i told you not to take off your hijab,

I wasn't trying to prove

that i'm way better than you.

When i told you not to take off your hijab,

I understood how you felt,it has never been easy,

to hold on to your believe,

just as how you wanted to.

When i told you not to take off your hijab,

i wasn't ignoring you,

and all the trials HE has put you thru'..

How could you take off you hijab,

it's HIS order to obey and you need to,

when all that He wanted,

was just the best for you?

You're beatiful, i know..

And do you really need people to tell you so?

You think HE's cruel and injustice, to give you this precious gift

then not letting you to show?

When i told you not to take off your hijab,

i was just reminding you of HIM,

of our loving LORD,Who creates you beautifully,

and Who just want to preserve your beauty.

You know it's hijab to secure your beauty,I know you feel guilty

so why would you want to take it off, honey?

You'll never win this game,

which you called "please-people' you're playing..

It's Allah ALONE you're pleasing..

So care not what they say,

no worries, let them walk away.

When i told you not to take off your hijab,

i was just being concern,

wanting the best for you,

because i do care and i do love you..

Source: click here

Why NIQAB?

Bismillah..

Assalamu'alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh..

"If you’re going to start ‘hooking up with your deen again’, take it step by step.."

A short advice i got from a blogpost.. So true indeed..

Check out these links advising our new-practising muslimaat on NIQAB. Since many are asking me how to start wearing niqab, maybe these links would b a bit of help. InshaAllah :)

To Wear Niqab..Or Not To!

Does This Make Me An Extremist?

Niqabi Who Needs a Little Boost!

Here some videos that i suppose will help to motivate my dear niqabis :)

Why Muslim Women are Beautiful? :)

Wny I Love Niqab..

And here's fatwa regarding Niqab, a scholarly view that takes Niqab as an obligation, given by Sheikh Muhammad Salih al-Munajjid:

Why Women Have to Wear Niqab?

And more dalil for Niqab according to Al-Quran and As-Sunnah:

Examining the Dalils For Niqab

To read and discover more of the scholarly arguments on why Niqab isn't an obligation, i suggest my dear sisters to read a book entitled "Muslim Women's Dress: Hijab or

Niqab" written by Syed Mutawalli ad-Darsh. Here some links you can refer to know more on this book:

Buy: Book

Book Review

And the most important thing is: DO THE RIGHT THING WITH THE RIGHT INTENTION AND RIGHT WAYS OF DOING IT

May Allah guide us to what pleases HIM.. Amin! (^_^)

~In Islam, women are precious~

Muslim Women

A Muslim woman look into the mirror for a different reason...
All they wanted to do at the moment they put their hijab on their head, their clothes...
Is to only PLEASE ALLAH-Their LORD n their Creator..
InshaAllah..

ENG 2: I'm Beautiful and You Are Too..

I'll say...

"I'm Beautiful.."

"You are beautiful.."

"She's beautiful too.."

"They are all beautiful.."

"We all will always look beautiful.."

Then a person might ask, "What makes you think that way?"

or the least, "Perasan. You look normal to me.."

And what do you say?...

"Isn't BEAUTY is too subjective? Hard to identify and classify. Everyone is different.."

Yeah2.. I know..

"Beauty isn't just about the look.."

"Beautiful person is the one with beautiful heart.."

"The beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.."

"She's beautiful! She's hot..."

"Put on some colours on your lips. You ain't look hot without make-ups, not beautiful"...

That's it. Enough.

Different people with different definitions..
Different people with different opinions..

Wait. If that so..

How about those who were born to be "i'm NOT beautiful" or "You are NOT beautiful" ??

"Don't worry. Do plastic surgery.."

And then waste my money?

No. I don't want that. Even if i'm to be the richest person in the world..
I'll never do that! Insha-Allah..

"But why not?"..

Because..

You'll end up being buried like other dead people do.
Then after a while your beautiful skin, look, body will no longer be the same and will no longer look the same. YOU ARE NO LONGER BEAUTIFUL!

Beautiful? Hot? Ugly? Hidious?

It doesn't matter anymore..

So what's up with all those plastic surgery and make ups?

They are not worthy. NOT AT ALL

"So what's 'beauty' for you then?"..

Owh. Simple

Natural-pure beauty.

"How's that?.."

Be thankful for who you are, despite of how you look..
Be thankful for what you have as Allah SWT has given you what's best for you!
Be thankful and stop comparing yourself with what other people have!
Feel enough with what you have-should make you the richest person on earth..
So..

STOP FOCUSING ON THE PHYSICAL (THE LOOK)
START PERFECTING YOUR HEART (MANNERS,etc).." (Sis Khadeejah Jones)
You'll result in tranquility-trust me.

Oo Muslims!

WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE WE ARE MUSLIMS..
BEAUTIFUL THE WAY ISLAM SEES US..
BEAUTIFUL THE WAY ISLAM SHAPES US..
BEAUTIFUL IN A WAY ALLAH AND HIS MESSENGER WANTED US TO BECOME..

So i'll say..

"You and i are beautiful.
NO DIFFERENCE.
Because you and i are the same;
Sharing a very common thing.
Sharing the same beauty.
Sharing ISLAM and that we are all MUSLIMS.
ISLAM IS BEAUTIFUL. So, we are all BEAUTIFUL
INsya-Allah..

(^_^)

ENG 1: Lollipops

Assalamu'alaikum..
Once wrote this n gonna share it with u all again biiznillah..

"A muslim woman, when they look into the mirror, they make sure they cover their aurah, they wear properly just to please Allah! Yeah! We are so unlike those women in the street who try very hard to attract men! Anyway, what for?..

Dear women, your beauty is exclusive.

U R NOT A DOLL-being PLAYED by innocent HANDS up to "EVIL ONES' HANDS"..

U R NOT GONNA LET PEOPLE JUDGE U as to what they see that might be wrong as u r not contented with what u seem to be!

U R U! And yeah.. God knows that n isn't that enough?? Do u still need people to tell u that u r pretty by exposing urself?!

Daaa~ U don't have to do that..


LOLLIPOPS
Here's a few lollipops for ya~

You are unlike those unwraped lollipops that will get rotten sooner or later, but u are like those lollipops that are nicely wrapped. People wanted to have lollpops n they surely not gonna buy those unwrapped ones. They surely wanted to have the 'wrapped' ones. It's just that they really have to put on some efforts to have the 'wrapped' lollpops because they are more 'expensive' than those 'unwrapped'..

U r not gonna buy the unwrapped one, r u?.. :)...

Bear this in mind..

"U R BEAUTIFUL..

YES. U N I KNOW THAT.

SO WE DON'T NEED ANYBODY TO TELL US WHAT IS 'BEAUTY'.

FOR 'BEAUTY' IS TOO SUBJECTIVE.

LEMME TELL U THAT EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL. YES. EVERYONE..

SO, ISN'T THIS ENOUGH?

PLEASE.. LOVE URSELF.

BE THE WRAPPED LOLLIPOP, NOT THE UNWRAPPED ONE"

Dear sisters that i love for the sake of Allah.. I'm writing this to show my concern and love towards u n to show that i DO care about my sisters in Islam n those who seek for HIS GUIDANCE=the truth(May Allah guide them!). May we meet again in Jannah! Amin! InshaAllah..

Wassalam..